Engagement party
Two families meeting for the first time? A round breaks the ice faster than small talk over canapés.
Engagement · bridal shower · reception · pantsy.app
From the engagement do to the last dance, Pantsy gets everyone playing off one phone each — bride's gran included. One secret word, one faker, gran-safe by default, and absolutely nothing to print, carry or clean up.
One round, start to finish
Press play — here's one round, start to finish, with a real wedding word. About five minutes each; then a new word drops and you go again, all night if the party's into it.
▸ a simplified demo round, looping · tap to pause
Make it personal
Pantsy doesn’t just run the game — it makes it yours. It scores every round and roasts the table, and writes a word pack about the couple themselves: how they met, the speeches, what goes wrong on the day.
From "yes" to last dance
Same game, completely different room each time — it carries from the first toast to the last dance. Nothing to print or carry in, and everyone from the head table to the cousins plays every round.
Two families meeting for the first time? A round breaks the ice faster than small talk over canapés.
The cheeky one — build a pack of the bride's secrets and watch her squirm. It's got its own page, words and all.
See the hen category →Mixed ages, daytime, tea on the table. Keep the pack wholesome and everyone from gran up can play.
While the couple's off for photos and the room turns around, a few rounds keep every table together — no one stuck making small talk or scrolling alone.
An honest look
The traditional ones are part of the fun — here's where each shines, and where a phone game pulls its weight.
| Pantsythis one | Mr & Mrs Quiz | The Shoe Game | Prosecco Pong | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| What guests do | Bluff a secret word, spot the faker | Match the couple's answers | Couple raises a shoe to answer | Land a ball, drink up |
| Props / prep | None — just phones | Pre-interview the couple | Two shoes, a question list | Cups, prosecco, a table |
| Who's actually playing | Everyone, every round | Everyone guesses | The couple; the rest watch | Two at a time |
| Good for all ages | Yes | Yes | Yes | 18+ |
| Plays again & again | New word each round | One and done | One and done | Till it runs out |
| Cost | Free | Free | Free | Cost of the prosecco |
Keep the classics — the shoe game is a guaranteed photo moment and Mr & Mrs earns its laughs. Pantsy is the one that pulls in everyone, from the head table to the cousins in the corner.
Straight answers
Pantsy. Everyone joins from their own phone with a short code — no app, no account — and the game is simple: you all share one secret word except a hidden faker, then give clues and vote out who's bluffing. You pick the word pack, so the Wedding pack keeps it gran-safe for a mixed room.
Yes. Because a round is just read a word, give a clue and tap a vote, the bride's gran and the bridesmaids are on an even footing. It runs in five-minute rounds between the speeches and the dancing.
No. Pantsy needs nothing but phones and a join code — there's nothing to print, buy, label or carry to the venue, which matters when there's already a dress, a cake and a seating plan to think about.
Yes — clean is the default. You choose the word pack or build your own, so the ready-made Wedding pack keeps it gran-safe for a mixed-age room. If you want it cheekier for the hen do specifically, that has its own page.
Pantsy is built for 3 to 12 players in the same room on their own phones. For a big reception you can rotate guests between rounds or run a few rooms at once across tables.
Absolutely — it works at any point in the wedding run-up where people have their phones and a few minutes: the engagement do, the hen or stag, the bridal shower, the rehearsal dinner or the reception itself.
Honestly, no — Pantsy is built for guests in the same room, where reading each other's faces is half the fun. For a fully remote event over video it isn't the right fit.
Before the first dance
Free, no app, no props. Start a game faster than you could find your seat.